Love Vs Relationship...

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The 14^th February is gone and with it the week of romance and love ends. Now you can go back to the older you. Ignore her, do not call her up, make her wait for you, rebuke her, call her a bitch and do whatever you want to do, because the Valentine week is over and nobody is gonna ask u ‘how your relationship is going? And what new surprise you has got planned for her?’

Don’t you think the times of romance are now gone by? Don’t you think now we live in an Era where Love is basically a need? Don’t you agree with me that you are not in Love, you are just in a Relationship?

It was easier for you to enamor her because she too was looking for Someone like you—make it a note you had list of qualities when you were looking for someone; while love always was and will be a serendipity—and hence one day when you guys were enjoying drinks over a football match in a sports bar Love happened.

The first look was basically a test to check whether she qualifies all the eligibility criteria or not, whether she has cute curves or not, whether she has a dimple or not and whether she is hot or not.

We have re-defined things and transformed Love into a Relationship. Yep! You are not in Love, you are just in a Relationship.
If you are considering her before Signing Up for companionship you are subconsciously making an inventory of terms and conditions. You are concentrating more on plus points and less on the negative ones. Once the agreement is signed by both of you. You acquire a right to cash on all the discount coupons your partner is providing you with. You will cover the first base then the second base, you will be taking your hands in all the places and one day you will realize it is all boring and this relationship has got nothing new to offer and baaam you will break up! Now you are single—a time to re-work on the demerits you have as a human—and you are again looking for someone to fall in love(relationship) with.

You will meet another chick at another bar; her cute breast will inspire you to take over, her modern intellect with a sexy demeanor will inspire many things inside you, and her round ass will just sweep the floor making you Fall in Love again. You will approach her with a grin on your face, she will turn around, look at you( a quick check) and congratulations you are in love(relationship) again.

The same old paradigm will be repeated, the first base, the second base, hands in all the weird places and then BREAK UP!!!
You know what went wrong? The inventory you made before signing up for a relationship—it had all the pros and no cons—with the girl you met an hour ago. Relationship is like a coin, it has two faces. Till the time heads is up you can enjoy all the so called features she has. O

nce the coin gets flipped you will realize how moody and irritating the person you are dating is! But then what to do? Leave her and find someone else?
Nope! Not again, don’t follow the same old paradigm of falling in love instead realize what Love is
? Help yourself become a better partner and then wait for the one who inspire you in the same way every other girl did, enamor her again, take her too to bed and your hands in all the cozy places and when every coupon she had is spent, wait look at her smile, if it inspires you equally spend your life with her; because love is not about the things your partner has got to serve you with love is about sticking together even when you have nothing.

Rebound Relationships.

You met her at a bar and were instantly enamored by her exquisite features; you made a move and got lucky. World looks magical to you, you find her so caring and understanding. She has an important influence in almost every decision you make. She is the one you have been looking for. You are having a happy life until her period arrives and she cries because of the acute pain in her stomach and her irrational behavior (influenced by mood swings) annoys you more than anything. You bring her chocolates and she feels better; wrapped up in your arm she sleeps tight; you look at her serene face and utter ‘She is the one I have always been looking for’. Life goes on; you celebrate every anniversary (including weekly and monthly ones) with loads of love and joy.

But with time you start realizing things are not falling in place and you need a change. A change- like what? A new sweater for the winters or a new job? No you need a new partner with whom you can discuss about your contemporary girlfriend. You need someone; in short you are looking for a Rebound Relationship.

A rebound relationship is one that occurs shortly after the break-up of a significant love relationship. If you are in a relationship but have distanced yourself emotionally from your relationship partner, you may begin a rebound relationship before you even leave the relationship you are in. If you move quickly from a long lasting relationship into another relationship then you are probably in a “rebound relationship."

Rebound Relationship is not infidelity, it is just one of those Choose the Best from option available to you.

Few Don’ts to be followed in a Rebound Relationship: -

·       You are not supposed to judge your new partner on the basis of the experience you had with your Ex.  It is human nature to hover over past and make present difficult to live. Relationship experts suggest ‘never compare your relationships’; comparing things may make it difficult for you to survive, you will keep flitting between present and past.

·       Focus on the positives of your past relationships; this boosts your confidence about yourself-it says ‘you are worthy’.

·       Treat the new partner just the way you expect yourself to be treated. Do not allow the ghost of past to harm your dream future.

Before going into a rebound relationship consider if it was clear your prospective reboundee was really into you long before you broke up, consider the possibility that s/he is only attracted to people who are emotionally unavailable (and thus will lose interest in you once you fall in love with him/her). S/he probably also has no regard for other people's feelings (namely your ex's) if s/he was hitting on you while you were involved with someone else. Would you really want to invest in a relationship with someone who overtly pursues relationships with men or women involved in committed relationships? If you don't think it would work out in the long-run, don't waste your time just because you feel lonely and someone is obviously interested.

Nightmare...23rd Post...:)

The Bench Awaits The Arrival Of You And Me Together...<3

It would be a Real Nightmare to wake up a morning and not finding you by my side. It would be terribly tough for me to come out of bed and look for you around; for me everything is "with you" and everything is sheer shit "without you"...
Libido is a word whose dictionary meaning is "A Part that causes Internal desire of happiness and sex..." for me my libido is you and your presence. Libido with its extremist Depth and extremist Elevation...
It would be really Astonishing for me and my life to live without you and your shadow; shadow of your Fulsome Beautifully Sculptured Human Body (Human Body because your soul is always there with me in Ups and Downs; In Dark and in Sunshine; In Agony and in Bonhomie...)
I Would Cry one whole day in despair and pain; i'll experience the loneliness once again but this time it would be more difficult to live with your Beautiful Imprints on my Body, Soul and Nerves. And the very next day i'll join you. Once again Love will Rise, Sorrows will Die, Euphoria will be Embraced and Loneliness will be Murdered...
But it would be really difficult to wake up in a morning without YOU being my side...:) 

P.S:- I LOVE YOU...<3

Heartless And Wicked Girls...22nd Post...:)

When a boy is in a Relationship, people ask him “Are You Serious With Her…???” but a boy admiring a girl is always called a True Lover and is never asked questions…

Because:- “True Love Of Almost Every Boy Is Incomplete…”

90% of the relationships die because of the carelessness of either of the partner.

Reality:- A man turns weak and harmless in Love; girls make them even weaker; boys lose their attitude and swaging style when in a relationship with a wrong Girl..(yup!! Even girls are wrong…)

You must have seen guys around you with shady and scrawny face; they were never the same but their libido of happiness was stirred by girls, girls they truly loved…

“Rape Is The Worst Thing A Man Can Do To A Woman And The Worst Thing A Woman Can Do To Man Is I.G.N.O.R.E…”

Men with great sex libido do things like rape and sexual harassment; but girls they fuck up; they screw up a boy in a very bad manner…(as All Men Are Not Rapist; Like So All Women Are Not Bitches…)

There are girls who talk; seduce; impress boys by sharing everything from shape, size to menstruation cycle but when it comes to reality i.e Love and Relationship they step back or say it as they stab and make boys bleed… There are even girls who are Omnibus (double faced) they coax boys to do things for them and once their purpose is fulfilled; then they award the boys with Expletives..
“At The End OF The Day Even Girls Have Philandering Attitude…”

“Women’s Core Is The Only Thing That Defies A Man…” Being substantially aware with this fact girls act apparently and their coax turns a man coherent and the man starts behaving Lunatic... Girls make boys feel Feigned and in themself girls remain Nonchalant…

To all the girls who are Obnoxious, Snobs and Scumbag be-aware because..:-

“If A Man Can Be Accused For Rape, Then A Woman Too Can Be Accused For Mental Harassment…”

P.S:- This Blog Is The Other Side Of The Coin Tossed In Last BLogPost…

Any Girl Reading This If You Want To Blame Me Or Call Me Sexist/Biased Then Let Me Tell You “You Are A Hypocrite…”

All Boys Reading This Must Comment…J